Saturday, January 3, 2009

Titbits!

Hi peeps,

I'm home early! What a surprise yah! lol.

I haven't been home so early in weeks.

Anyways i'll be posting some (others still with Vivian) of the photos taken for the XMas party i had.

But first, i feel i have to reply to one of the comments i have in my CBox (the chatbox on the right) by Pegs as my reply would prolly be too long. =P

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Pegs: HAHA, you dun need another one to be happy..Friends and family can be enough! And you should treasure time alone too. I asked tt ques tt I asked EVERY GUY! HAHAHAHAHAHA..Gonna be les soon..=P

My Reply: I'm actually very contented with life right now, being busy on weekends, meeting friends, going places, playing paintball, going track with my bike. However, i feel that you are only half right when you say Friends and Family can be enough. Sure, i love my family and my friends alot, however, sad to say of cos, they can only provide me with so much.

Why do i say that? Can you tell your family or friend your deepest secrets? How many of your friends would sit by your side and hear your sob stories, lend u their shoulders to cry on (not that i do, i have up crying a long time ago. Its just a figure of speech.)? Even if there was, would u want to let them know everything? Your parents would prolly just nag at you (generation gap), you will wonder if your friends think that you are a bother or even if they would tell others what you have just confided in them.

I'm not saying that without "The One" i cannot be happy, i'm just saying that it would truely complete my life. Friendship, Kinship, Relationship. There are certain things u cannot do with your friends or family. Like sitting down at some beautiful beach, stargazing, soft music, exchanging sweet nothings, listening to the sound of the waves. Cannot do with your friends or family right? Imagine a group of guys or girls doing that. No "WUHEELING" ahh.

You spoke about treasuring your alone time. I do. There are times which i enjoy my time alone, doing my own stuff. However, i have grown to rather hate it as i have prolly been alone for most of my life up until now. As a single child, i have spent my childhood playing by myself. I was shy (still am, only not as shy as i was then), i dun have many friends (now i have alot! BLESSED!) so i dun get to talk much (which prolly is why i'm such a good listener =P). The only peeps i was hanging out with was my cousins (luv them deep deep arh). My parents are the type of people who dun go out much or socialise much. That culminated to me being the way i was.

Thats why i hate being alone, i love to have people around me, chatting, even just sitting down at coffeebean and watching people walk by. Kinda boring i guess, but beats being alone.

Whats up with the les thing sia. =D I think its a terrible waste for girls to become lesbians. Girls are for guys like me(ehhhhh machiam like wat sia =P HO MAN WOR =D) to be cuddle and loved. Girls with girls, not cool. =P So, dun be uncool. It ain't natural. =P

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Completed my reply to pegs, long ya. Sorry then haha. Quite sensitive topic loh =P

Anyways heres some pics for yall to munch on.

House Party - somewhere, sometime, some people.













Too many, so just a few to wet your appetite.

Next!

Track Session on 28 Dec 2008























Alright, thats enuff tibits for tonite, have a great weekend!

1 comment:

Joran said...

personally, I think GFs are great to have around for happiness.

but for innermost secrets, a closest buddy, a distant friend or a blog works better for me.